I'm going to write about how people tend to contradict themselves or hypocritical or selfish....
Here is the definition of all of them:
Selfish: Concerned chiefly or only with yourself and your advantage to the exclusion of others.
Hypocrite: A person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives
Contradict: 1) deny the truth of 2) Logic, a contradiction consists of a logical incompatibility between two or more propositions. It occurs when the propositions, taken together, yield two conclusions which form the logical inversions of each other. ...
I believe a large part of people are Hypocrites\contradict themselves by there actions. They tell you one thing about a certain subject and your figure out how much sense it actually makes, Then you observe that person over a period of time and wonder if they actually believe what you told them. For example, ( I do this too) It's not funny to make jokes of other peoples behavior behind there backs. ACTUALLY. Its really stupid to be honest. If you really think about it and you are humble about it, Put yourself in there position. I know I know you hear it from 4th grade teachers, but give it a try, just once. Pretend your them, whats it feel like? Whats it feel like to be insulted by yourself? Not as funny as you thought.
If people are also telling you bad stuff about someone behind there back, Just think what there saying around your back. Do you think they only talk about the one specific person behind there back and no one else? Just a thought.
Now we come to the splitting hairs part, I'm not using names and I know that's different from singling out someone. I can just see a bunch of people commenting and saying I'M the one who is contracting my statements and being the Hypocrite.
Oh selfish people... wow does that ever bug me. I'm going to use the best example because everyone thinks this. "I could totally beat you up right now."
This specific person says this all the time and then pulls off some weird move I'm sure we know someone who does this. Someone who's taken a Karate course or Tik Wan Do Judo ect, but you don't honestly know the capability of someone, the potential they hold, Until you get in a situation where they have to stretch that talent and come out on top. Sure maybe the person that has a black belt is pretty sweet and can do a back flip and all that jazz, but against the guy who holds his grounds with determination or the girl who fights with no rules, may come out as the stronger fighter.
People who use there "experince" as there support to what they can accomplish make me laugh.
I'm a student. I have stayed in Highschool. I took calculus and All my science's.
What do you think this person is? Super intelligent? maybe a success through there teenage life? maybe even an advanced person? (this is where the topic of prejudice comes in but there's nothing we can do about Mental Prejudice)
Well what your seeing is the top of the iceberg.
*NOTE* this was an example... I'm not picking anyone of my friends out*
But what if you got the other half of the story?... They had to stay another year, They failed Calculus. They just passed bio and physics.
What I'm contrasting it to is a fighter, who's a black belt and gets into a fight and a black eye and a broken arm, the other guy walks away.
Compared to a high school student getting garbage marks who has incredible potential.
Do you see what I'm saying?
Potential is they key. Determination is the key.
You can get 90s in school, your social life might decrease but you can. Here comes the message of this note: ( maybe totally irrelevant from the following statements but.)
When your in a group of people you act differently then you do to someone one on one. Everyone does it, don't deny it. Everyone acts differently around certain people, Don't tell me you don't because I see it, But the fact of it is you can change. It's incredible hard, but you can. Once you have been around someone for a while you expect them to act a certain way. If someones is mature, lets say, and someone else gets them mad or upset, they show there emotions, and stomp off or something, People look on that as Immature... In contrast to someone who's immature to begin with, well that's expected of them. ( Younger siblings for instance.... Grr).... They can get away with so much.
Anyways what I'm trying to say is when you say your going to do something do it, If your trying to improve, put forth the effort, If you really want to do it, then do it, whats stopping you? You got a whole iceberg to impress people with, They've only seen the outside of you. Show em whats on the inside. Take down a Giant :P. Hopefully this note will help someone or some people.
Untill the next time... this is Gary... signing off... Have a good summer
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
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